What is FAILURE to you?
I’ve been at a few social events the past few days. A lovely Macmillan Coffee morning with the girls, where that was lot of cake and free flowing wine & Prosecco. A Charity Ball with an indulgent 3 course meal, more wine and champagne And for many this would mean the end of the ‘DIET’ and hard work of the week. As I send this email many may be planning having a big Sunday Lunch with more indulgences as you’re gonna ‘Start again Monday’ And the viscous circle starts again. Then you wonder… Why aren’t I losing weight? I’ve worked so hard! But it’s enough to keep you exactly where you are. At both events I had many questions about why I wasn’t drinking. Many looked at my plate from the buffet and mentioned I’d left all the bread (It was for the birdies – ha) My commitment to my goals didn’t stop everyone else having fun. Right now I’m working hard on my business goals, like many are working on their body and health goals. I’m having to work hard, stay strong and put myself into POWER to do this. Saturday night when all my friends were chilling or out partying, I was in an online meeting learning how to make my business grow. It was tough….but I know I have to make some sacrifices to reach for what I want. I know that digging in now when it feels uncomfortable will be worth it as the good decisions will become easier to do. All of this can be the same for you and your body and mindset goals. Only YOU are responsible for the choices you make in any situation. There are many ways you can put yourself in POWER and feel proud that you’re doing something to get what you want. STOP blaming others for the negative feelings you have about your life and health. NOTHING outside of yourself can control your thinking. When you get a moment that you’re not in control, STOP blaming yourself and thinking you’re FAILURE. You’re doing the best you can, and you can learn from every experience. Focus on the ‘Payoffs’ of lifestyle change, like Looking in the mirror and LOVING your body. The ENERGY you want to be able to play and have fun with your family. The HAPPINESS with your partner or best friends. Work out EXACTLY what YOU want in your life and act on it. STOP waiting for someone to come and do it for you as you’ll be waiting a long time. Whilst you have a little think about what you’d like to change…make sure you plan what tools you’ll use to get you where you want to be. Your body….HOW are you going to make it as toned and defined as you want it? http://taransformation.com/dvd-sales-oct/ ^^HINT HINT…12 minutes every weekday is an awesome plan with my DVD ^^ Your healthy food…where are you going to start with your choices? Try any of my ebooks if you want to detox or learn how you can STILL eat Italian, Chinese, Indian or classic british meals and LOSE WEIGHT. Your MINDSET….practice the positive thoughts. Only once you’ve nailed this will everything CLICK. That’s why I make 10 minutes reading and essential part of my day. I do all of this MOST days. Not every day…I’m like you, things crop up…but MOST days I try my best and it WORKS. Again…nobody can do it for you. Start with one thing for you TODAY Get your exercise plan in place. When you get my DVD, I’ll get it in the post to you STRAIGHT AWAY and you can start your change for LIFE plan This morning I went into the TARAnsformer exclusive groups and declared my day, my choices and what I’m going to do to stay on track. It took me one minute. Spend one minute on yourself now and email me and tell me what you’ll do to change today. Keep fit & fab Tara xx P.S If you want more fun and excitement than a DVD at home you can join my class. Let me know if you want to come and check it out. More from me:
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